It is said that a mother can understand her baby’s need or feeling even if the baby remains silent. Well, it is true that a mother can easily understand whether her child is happy or sad or nervous. But there might be more complicated things. Suppose a baby is suffering from stomach ache. A mother can understand that her baby is not comfortable and he or she is suffering from some kind of problem. But is it possible for the mother to understand what the problem exactly is until and unless her baby puts it in words?
Normally by this time of year I am at least half organised for christmas. I know how boring that sounds but the thought of buying all my presents in December terrifies me and I could never afford to do it all in one month anyway.
This year however I seem to be lagging behind. I have a few things in for Jake and a few dress up costumes for Rachel, but other than that the attic is bare.
Over the last few weeks I have felt as though I am banging my head off a brick wall. Jake has always been more free with his hands than Rachel, but over the last six months or so, I have noticed that he rarely hits, kicks or pushes anymore.
Up until recently there was very little differentiation in our home between the toys Rachel played with, and the toys that Jake chose.
If Rachel wanted to play with Barbies or My Little Ponies, then Jake was happy to join in. But in the last few weeks our wee boy has started to emerge. It all started with a Batman figure that my sister bought for him last month, and from then we have seen his interest in boys toys grow and grow.
